There are some fundamental moves that when you can make them, the world becomes much bigger and brighter.

1. We have relationships → We are relationships.
   We are relationships.

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2. I'm feeling [lost|bored] → Seek novelty, make art, help out.
   Seek novelty, make art, help out.

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3. Love is a feeling → Love is an existential stance.
   Love is an existential stance.

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4. Buy/Sell → Kindly use; fairly exchange; generously offer.
   Kindly use; fairly exchange; generously offer.

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